Sunday, October 31, 2010
Sunday Feedback October 31
Trunk or Treat! Another incredible bridge to our community!
Your group leaders have something you can do to help with a future sermon series.
Don't forget your homework!
Here's our memory verse for the week: "Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth." 1 Corinthians 13:6 NIV)
How was Sunday?
Saturday, October 30, 2010
Trunk or Treat Sunday night

As of Saturday night there is still room for a few more trunks! Contact Andy by Sunday afternoon to get in on the fun and outreach.
Thursday, October 28, 2010
Catch up on Paul and Brenda Lawler
Wednesday, October 27, 2010
Bewitched Believers
(First off, this isn't a "Halloween" post. If you want to read something about the evils of trick or treating you'll have to go somewhere else. And there are a gazillion places on the web to do that.)
Often I've shared while teaching a tidbit of my personal background and church heritage. While my childhood pastors proclaimed salvation by grace there was always the sense in those churches that behind every corner lurked an evil temptation. So there was always a level of distrust when the church ventured beyond the walls of "the church". Be careful out there...if they don't dot their "i's" or cross there "t's" just like us, chances are there's something bad in the mix.
So, we couldn't participate in certain things at school or in entertainment. Square dancing in PE class required us to have a letter from our parents exempting us. Walt Disney movies (while Walt was still in charge) that were always innocent and tasteful were taboo because the price of admission went to foster the "Hollywood lifestyle" of people like Liz Taylor, etc. At least that's what I heard.
It's taken me forty-plus years to recover from legalistic leanings. Yet I have to confess, buried somewhere deep in my soul are the tendencies to revert to a self-righteous position of condemning things not really addressed in the Scriptures. I fight it regularly, and only by God's grace do I not go back. Such a thought sends chills up my spiritual spine.
One thing I've learned in my years of pastoral ministry is that certain personalities (mine included) are drawn by Phariseeism. You know - the Pharisees were the religious fundamentalists of Jesus' day who said, "We're right and everyone else (including you, Jesus) are wrong." They claimed to be the anointed keepers of the Law.
Within every church, going back to the 1st Century are personalities who either were saved out of legalism or who because of their upbringing are drawn to the idea that the stricter the rules, the holier the life. And inevitably that belief leads to tightening the turniquet around the life of the Spirit in the hearts of believers.
Paul called those in the Galatian churches who had reverted back to grace plus law "bewitched". It's as though they were under a spell. Following Paul's departure from their region, Judaizers - Jews who taught Gentiles that before you could become a Christian you had to first become a Jew by circumcision (ouch) - came into these fledgling churches, pulling out their credentials as teachers, and brought the confusion that legalism brings, especially to those of us with a bent toward that kind of thing.
Here's where I see the Judaizers today. Sure, they're in local churches. Always will be. They've always had their publications. My mom used to subscribe to one and I read it as a kid every week. But with the free soap box (that I am currently using) of the internet, they are just a Google away from anyone's computer. And from the computer their interpretations go directly where? Into our minds.
Graciously the Holy Spirit has been teaching me for 44 years that Christianity brings liberty, not bondage to standards we create that the Creator never intended. Straining at gnats and fixating on the speck in someone else's eye only breeds a negativism that stifles what matters most: loving men and women into the Kingdom of Christ.
"So, be careful little eyes what you see. Be careful little ears what you hear." That was a good lesson from my childhood. At NHC we've determined not to allow Phariseeism in any form to take a foothold among us. And that includes in me as well. Our elders are committed to that. We won't permit ourselves to major on the minors, which is the hallmark of a legalistic spirit.
So, Stand fast therefore in the liberty wherewith Christ hath made us free, and be not entangled again with the yoke of bondage. Galatians 5:1 KJV
(You'll note that for this post I've chosen to use the Authorized Version of the Bible.)
Rick
Sunday, October 24, 2010
Sunday Feedback October 24
Thursday, October 21, 2010
CREST Follow Up
Sooooo....
Here's the gist of the Elders Report from CREST that Rick gives ('cause we don't want anyone to be in darkness!)
Since our last meeting we’ve made it through another summer! Summer was full of ministry and outreach, with Surf Camps, Operation Back Pack, and of course, lots of guests. In a resort area like ours, summer is a different beast for churches than in most areas. And we survived!
Can you believe that sometimes folks serving in ministry receive critical remarks – usually from guests. We don’t expect everyone who walks through the doors to understand, agree with or appreciate the ministry and vision God has given us. But we also don’t want those of you serving who hear or see those criticisms to let them get you down. You work hard at what you do, and you get it. So we came up with a memo on how to handle criticism. All our Ministry Team leaders were sent a copy and asked to distribute them to their teams. So if you didn’t get one, ask your leader why not?
All totaled 18 people publicly professed Christ by being baptized during the summer. That’s amazing. We’ve also had a large number of folks commit and covenant with us as partners in the last few months. Seven came in since our last DNHCU class in September. That’s encouraging.
We’ve also had a lot of people move away this year, more than I can remember in any other year. Mostly they moved for financial reasons. So it seems that as we take a step forward in growing with new folks, we take a step back at the same time with people moving. We’re also missing people who perhaps were extra busy in the summer and haven’t found their way back yet. But Sunday’s attendance indicated they are coming back.
You might remember that after the last CREST meeting we asked those interested in Disaster Response to meet together. Twelve of us met and we’ve taken some positive steps, esp. with the NC Baptist Men’s Disaster Relief team, to partner with them in case of a catastrophic storm. Good ideas were shared.
In August we had a workshop as elders about systems. As we mature as a church and grow larger we keep finding it necessary to tweak our systems to make sure no one falls through the cracks. We have a great data base program that Jim Bailey has run with, and will be getting on line with some better ways of tracking ministry teams, connection groups, new partners, NHCU, building use needs, etc. Most of all we plan to form an assimilation team to help attenders take the steps needed to become committed partners.
One thing we’ve noticed lately is a bit of a paradox. Our attendance in everything is down. Sundays are down from last year. First Wednesdays are about half of what they were a year ago. As you can see, CREST isn’t bringing in too many. So we’re thinking of what to do about it. Part of it can be attributed to people moving. What is paradoxical to us is that we’ve seen a greater number of baptisms this year; a greater number of new partners and our offerings have been stronger than the last two years. So we’re seeing some positive growth in essentials that indicate strength as a church, just without as many people.
Burnie took a break from his elders responsibilities in the summer and now Steve is taking a break.
We said goodbye to Jay and Alicia, sending them out to India as missionaries. John and Cindy Peterson with Campus Crusade visited us. We were able to help Janessa Long get to China and we heard a report from Taylor Edmonds who is serving another two year term in Rome. And right after our last meeting Tammy Stump left for Nepal. Let me encourage all of us to keep up with all our missionaries. As we receive updates we post them on our blog. Most of them also send out fairly regular emails that you can receive if you ask. Larry and Sheila Benson will be here the end of November and the first of December. And next summer Stan and Sandy Anonby will finally be back for another visit with us from Brazil.
In the summer months we took a look at the great doctrines of grace and salvation from the heart of Romans. Then we spent 4 weeks talking about what it means to be a part of the body of Christ. Now we’re in 40 Days of Love through mid-November. Then we’ll be in the Christmas season. There’s a lot of excitement right now about the 40 Days and our groups are going strong. When it’s over we’ll see that God has taught us some of the deepest life-changing truths in the Scripture about loving Him and others.
Right now we’re working on next year’s budget. Would you pray with us that our collective ministry purposes and vision will guide us through this process. It’s not just about putting numbers on a paper that we think will “work”. It’s about seeking God’s will and plans for us and exercising faith. At the end of November we’ll be meeting again as a church to see the new budget proposal. I hope it’s scary.
We’ve heard of one family in our church going through a really tough financial time, and we know there must be others. Please: we have funds to help. Not unlimited funds, but we can help. We just have to know how to help. So if you know someone in the church with a pressing burden, encourage them to talk to one of us and let us know. It’s sad when folks don’t ask and we could have helped.
Guess what’s coming soon? Operation Christmas Child. November 14 is when we’ll collect all the boxes, so start getting ready. That follows Trunk or Treat pretty quickly. We’re also observing Organ Donation Sunday on Nov. 7, which gives everyone an opportunity to register as an organ donor.
Part of being a good Christian is being a good citizen. That means we should exercise
our right to vote. I hope you will prayerfully consider how you will vote.
Burnie’s working on some ideas to help us raise awareness and giving toward paying off our building. At the same time we really need to get busy finishing the upstairs for our youth. They’ve been patient. I want to promise them that they’ll be in their own space next year and early. But I can’t make that promise on my own.
Let me switch gears now and give you a bit of what the Bible calls a warning. One of the things that all this technology revolution has produced in our culture is an overload of information. In a couple clicks you can open up all kinds of blogs, articles, videos and you have more knowledge at your fingertips than ever before. But keep in mind that knowledge and wisdom are two different things. The thing that separates wisdom from knowledge is what the Bible calls “discernment” – being able to distinguish from what is true and right, and what may appear to be true and right, but has bits and pieces of things that are not.
How do I keep from being deceived?
- Know the Word. It’s is truth.
- Pray for wisdom. James said if we ask, God loves to give it.
- Trust those God has placed in your lives to guard you from wolves . In Acts 20 that’s what elders are instructed to do.
- Surround yourselves with people with true wisdom. Walk with the wise.
Monday, October 18, 2010
This Wednesday Night: CREST

There's an amazing praise to give God this Wednesday night. Don't miss the opportunity for the jaw dropping news. 7PM.
This week's memory verse
You can do it!
Sunday, October 17, 2010
Sunday Feedback October 17

Love Matters Most.
Today is the start of 40 Days of Love.
Homework. Scripture memory.
Learning to love God and love our neighbors.
Excitement among our groups.
We sold out of books, so if you didn't get one, more are on order.
Did anyone notice the bagels? Thanks NY Bagels!!
Team Trunk or Treat

You can join the team to be a part of Trunk or Treat today! Simply follow this link and fill out the easy online team registration. What an incredible opportunity we have to reach out to our community and share the love of Jesus Christ!
Friday, October 15, 2010
Kick Off Rally!

Saturday evening 6-7 PM. Come get pumped up for 40 DOL!
Sit with your group!
Cake and beverages to follow.
Monday, October 11, 2010
Expect opposition

The enemy of Christ and His Church is not a happy camper.
He knows that over the next 6 weeks Nags Head Church will present a united front. Think about it:
- Everyone will be doing the same daily devotions.
- Everyone will be studying one of the most powerful passages in the Bible - 1 Cor. 13 together in our groups.
- Everyone will be memorizing Scripture - hiding God's Word in our hearts. (Remembering that Jesus battled him in the wilderness by quoting the Bible, I think this one really worries Satan.)
- Everyone will be encouraged to let God's agape love be active in our daily relationships. What's more powerful than that?
So beware, your adversary the devil is on the prowl. Don't give him an opportunity in your life, your family or your group!
Sunday, October 10, 2010
Sunday Feedback October 10
The excitement for 40 Days of Love is building.
Commitment. Balance. Relationships. Are you growing?
Lots of The Relationship Principles of Jesus books picked up today.
Congrats to Andy for hanging with us for 10 years!
Share how being with your church impacted your life today.
Wednesday, October 6, 2010
Update from Don and Mary DeHart in British Columbia

Dear Nags Head family,
What a summer! Busyness came like a flood following the camps and our September holiday. NAIM had asked us to be part of a new department combining Recruiting, Summer Ministries Initiative and First Nations Partnership under one flag. At times it seemed like I'd been "pushing a rope" the past year. This enlarged vision will bring strength of several individuals to a combined effort as we move ahead in the good changes NAIM has in focus.
One of the initatives we are launching, we are calling Orientation Gatherings, long weekends in many areas gathering Native believers into long weekend experiences to invite them to look at NAIM and consider how they may wish to speak into and invite our partnership in their communites.
We just returned from a Talking Circle in Billings, Montana...very encouraged. The vision we hold in trust is beginning to draw God's people all over North America. We met Crow, Yakima, Lumi, Northern Cheyenne, Eastern Chippewa, and other First Nations people who love Jesus and want to bring their own people to Him. There were no "big people" there...just folks like us without fame or notoriety...but with a strong vision for Native people to take their rightful place in God's kingdom work.
So I wanted to share one story for your hearts. See link below.
Here is the story from Montana: http://www.ccci.org/ministries-and-locations/ministries/campus-ministry/native-american-students-two-worlds.htm
We hope to go home to Mt. Currie next week before NAIM's Operations Council and Staff Conference (Oct 20-28) and a trip to Vancouver Island for another Talking Circle, (Oct. 17) depending on my getting some overdue bases covered here in preparation for both. We've prayed much and wanted to be part of seeing the work at Sachteen move forward before snow. There is in place a workteam of local believers, Native and non-Native, planning to continue the infrastructure setting the Red Soul Rising camp on more solid footing October 15-17. I will have to leave Saturday afternoon in to make prepartation for the Talking Circle(actually from our perspective, it's a Listening Circle, as we gather with several trusted Native believers to gain their voice and vision in the direction we see God drawing the ministry we share, some are NAIM staff, others are not...yet).
We will be taking a team of 6 or 8 older youth from Chicago RSR Youth Connection to Mt. Currie in December for several days RSR follow-up and hopefully take as many older youth from Mt. Currie back to Chicago to spend Christmas and New Years with the families of the follow-up team, the Lord willing.
As well, NAIM has asked me to help assemble a team of 2 Native and a non-Native brother from New Mexico Navaho ministries to hold a series of Great Commission Workshops in different locations from Vancouver to Regina in early January into Spring 2011. These will be venued to gather Native and non-Native local believers into groups to to stir up and train local believers to reach the on 98% Native people in most communities who have yet to turn to Jesus.
So, there is lots on the plate, but following the vision God has sown in our hearts is joy beyond expression. At 63, I've never been so excited about minsitry.
Thank y'all for being who you are in our lives,
don and mary
Monday, October 4, 2010
Pray for Your Pastor on Monday
I don't know about rainy days, but Mondays always are tough.
Sunday, October 3, 2010
Sunday Feedback October 3

Our last Sunday in "Body Parts". And a rainy one at that.
Everybody signed up for a 40 Days Connection Group.
Kit Lewis talked about being mentored and how it has been the greatest.
Paul challenged us to live together in harmony.
New partners welcomed into the family.
Sunday all the purposes come together. What did you see/hear/do at NHC?